“How you love ourself is how you teach others to love you.” -Rupi Kaur According to the Brain and Behavior Research Foundation, self-love is “a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support your physical, psychological and spiritual growth. Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love means not settling for less than you deserve.” Self-love is an idea that’s bandied about a lot these days. It shows up in so many shallow, unfortunate, and wrong ways. In advertising, entitlement, selfishness, excuses…none of these things are…